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"Constant mood swings and literally not knowing if saying 'Hey, how are you doing?' will trigger them to absolutely freak the fuck out at you. Walking on eggshells in every literal sense of the word."
"I've seen things now- videos of people listing the symptoms of BPD with soft piano music in the background, what appears to be humorous videos with cartoon sound effects but only bewilder me, videos of a therapist clap-talking- that have shaken me to my core."
"My (BPD) mom was a bit sympathetic and was kinda poking around the idea of maybe reconciling. I realized after all of this shit went down that I couldn't end up recreating the environment I grew up in. Total chaos, burned out dad, BPD insane mom. Two damaged people living on very infrequent high hig"
"Like an entire car full. She just drove across the state stopping at department stores and stealing from them one time each. Anyways. I'm now the not-so-proud owner of a $400 pair of Tom Ford sunglasses 😎"
"She already struts around like she owns the place and stares down our other cat, who is nearly twice her size and super territorial. Very BPD vibes. I love her"
"This woman was absolutely bonkers, would make a massive scene in public if I so much stepped into the shadow of another woman, would scream at waitresses if they tried to take my order, she would play nice around my friends, then shittalk me behind my back to everyone. Throw on top of that, typical "
"My incestuous, abusive BPD "boy mom" type mother pleaded for me not to go, saying she would die without me at home. I could never talk to her about my excitement - she would either become argumentative and try to guilt-trip me and convince me to stay local, or shut down and start crying."
"adorable but completely fucking nuts. she pretended like she'd never heard of red scare but I know she listens to it. only person I know who may actually have BPD."
"In order to produce a healthy offspring you need to reduce stress when you're pregnant (9 months), even before to increase chances of pregnancy, and then to deter health issues you ought to breast feed for 9-24 months, and then continue to form an emotional attachment bond with your child for anothe"
"This comment struck a nerve, especially because her family dynamic is just awful. Her parents hate each other (mom has BPD) and fight constantly, talk shit about other people and the help, and are very elitist."
"Every time. Make way more money, have normal bodycounts, tend to maintain stable relationships"
"My immigrant mom is a BPD mess from years of mainland Chinese parenting and her cultural values contradict with the American ones that I was surrounded by, leading to endless physical abuse and conflict."
"Or a clip from The Bear and everyone's commenting 'I think Carmy's BPD but with a little mix of OCD thrown in there.'"
"only ethical exception i can think ov is lying re: bipolar crazy bitch who might actually kill u anyway a few days ago my friend's potential bpd partner called me, i played his fictional gay fuckbuddy to give him a glowing reference, & he got laid"
"I suppose this is personal to me because my mom is a batshit crazy, BPD, manipulative person who has frankly done some unspeakable, heinous things to our family, and I could 100% envision her posting there about how her husband and children ruined her life."
"i've spent the past thirty minutes cross referencing people who follow him on spotify with people who follow him on instagram, then going back and seeing what artists they like to see if his current music taste has been influenced by them."
"Yea she was a nurse, yea he was unemployed, yea I'm an opiate addict dropout faildaughter. Who else?"
"She has a history of BPD style freak outs over my friendships or connections to women so I tried to desperately avoid that form happening. Shouldn't have lied but didn't want to spend another two days arguing intensely and mercilessly being berated."
"okay i felt embarrassed immediately after i yelled at them but i still tried to justify my behavior to my bf, because that's what you do after you've done something you shouldn't have. and i know exactly why i did it, it's my extreme competitiveness and insecurity."
"Say that you are bored and want to move on. Most peaceful break up strategy with BPD artsy types 🥰"
"There were many breaks throughout the 4 years (the signs) but everytime I wanted to walk she would cry and beg and plead. I thought it meant she was fighting for us, but I guess it was something more pathological and sinister (BPD I suspect)."
"I was so taken aback by this exchange and the next day requested a private 15 minute meeting with our supervisor to relay my concerns. She was somewhat validating but overall pretty indifferent, saying "We're all God's children!" (lol) but mentioned that she would introduce an office conduct policy "
"I know multiple people with panic disorders, bpd, and depression who have had their intellectualized excuses for pot addiction, reinforced by a licensed medical practitioner."
"Had less than 1/4 of the amount of credits needed to graduate. I was doing a lot of drugs, did a stint in juvie, became too distracted by skating, graffiti and BPD chicks. Dumb wanna-be hoodrat shit."
"Getting emotionally involved or catching feelings for a hot BPD art hoe is one of the most masochistic things you can do."
"Let's just boil her down to this--diagnosed BPD, on a horse's dose of lamictal, drank heavily against multiple doctors orders, and had an insane sex drive with one of the most genetically gifted bodies I've ever seen."
"She's talking about her hobbies - she has a habit of picking new interests and hobbies up every few weeks then moving on to the next one. She talks about how she makes friends easily and doesn't like people who are reluctant, slow to get close and open up with new people. Her worst trait is 'seeing "
"But as fate would have it, he got tenured at the architecture school. Not only that, he fell in love with one of his students - a bpd art hoe. Left his wife (or kicked her out), let the new girl move in. Over time, they become weirder and more reclusive, stopped participating in the community... His"
"Y'all some "the derangement of a beautiful woman is, unquestionably, the most poetical topic in the world" motherfuckers"
"Basically my dad fell for it because my brother has bpd and has been manic the few days before."
"I like feeling good obviously but I end up getting this feeling that my life will be over if things don't work out/we fall out of touch. I swear I don't have bpd, I think I'm just an overly emotional fag!"
"I'm adderall/BPD-posting rn, but really does anyone else feel like this? I really miss those intense, almost co-dependent friendships with other girls I had as a teenager."
"I told her that I like her a lot and would like to go on a third date. She tells me that she always loses interest in the guy once he declares his interest for her and that she would like to leave it at that. With that, the date was over. We didn't speak for six days. It felt like a breakup."
"to this day im not sure if she has BPD or im just fucking stupid. during the break up she mentally tortured me for a year. made all sorts of insane accusations towards me. she has this manic bubbly energy that people are drawn too."
"she's not ugly, she just really needs to do something different with her appearance and better angles/lighting for pictures, and 2. she made a wild post in the bpd sub that was quite a ride (as always)."
"She just had a concert there on Oct. 9th draped in an Israeli flag, wearing a star of David, and calling herself a zionist lol"
"I blew up and lost control. 100% BPD I don't like it. I sent 20 emails until 6am going off."
"It doesn't even have to be gendered (though it does work best when dealing with BPD hoes and women pushing 30), you can use it for men too."
"We are both in our 30's and besides her BPD and my Aspergers we aren't typically too crazy."
"**First girlfriend**: Dated for about a year when I was 18–19. She was kind of a BPD art hoe so I had it coming I guess."
"Every man on this sub claims to have dated a bpd woman to the point it is comical and what seems more likely is you just had addictive sex with a woman you didn't like as a human being."
"Tbh I am being myself on the profile (not the BPD stuff you find on my profile btw) - and I'm trying to be more humourous."
"My gf just suddenly solved a problem she made up, cried about it, and now she's decided everything is back to normal. Is this BPD or just woman brain? I made a good racist joke to her dad during a family reunion that he liked, she freaked out for days that I was an ass and she wouldn't let me see he"
"It used to be frail BPD people desperately trying to navigate life. Now it's just dudes, broing each other off, earnestly asking if anyone else likes the same normie shit they like."
"Basically learned that some dude that I was seeing for like a month got back with his ex, had a BPD reaction. Need some validation from the wahmen of this sub that these tendencies r normal in all of us."
"I had a fucked up breakup with a BPD queen years ago that fucked me up pretty bad, left me with some tough mental health shit and not really feeling like I could open up to people anymore or like let myself connect and shit. So this is nice change of pace."
"doc thought i was exhibiting a few symptoms of obsessive compulsive disorder, so we booked me in to see a psychologist. turns out it's a cocktail of BPD and an anxiety disorder. what joy. the diagnosis makes sense, but i just feel really void and empty (go figure, i guess)."
"When you fight with a short man you can look him in the eye when you're fighting, or put on heels to show you have the higher ground while also looking down on him. Now I have to get on a ladder when I fly into a BPD rage."
"I got very addicted to a BDP boy. I was hooked almost within the first night. We drank wine and listened to music and I was overcome by the intensity of how stimulating it was and how hot and passionate he was... Then the push pull dynamic began. He was super needy (while being hot and masculine in "
"This seemed weird to me because BPD is basically a trauma disorder, so it seemed odd that this therapist was claiming that rich kids were more likely to check off the boxes for BPD symptoms (lacking an identity, emotional dysregulation, etc). I would imagine that poor kids would be more at risk for "
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